
There are little romance subplots all around me irl and I don't have the time to turn any of them into novels
Today I went to my favorite Italian restaurant and was seated at the table nearest the kitchen. We noticed a change to the menu. The list of pastas had been replaced by just "pasta of the day." We asked what the pasta of the day was. The waiter told us it was a mystery. So we ordered it, and when it came it was pasta with eggs and bacon, and I was so surprised and delighted by this unexpected whimsy that I started to clap. And then I noticed the chef watching me from the doorway and smiling. He had clearly come out wanting to see what people's reactions would be.
I'm not saying I love the chef or that the chef loves me. I am saying that is a seed with which to grow a romance that I don't have time to write.

Romance seedling of the day:
Tonight I went to a party and a woman asked me my name.
"Anna," I said.
"This confirms my theory," she said loudly, to the entire room. People stopped to listen. "ALL Anna's are drop dead gorgeous!"
I felt v flattered. I asked for her name.
She flashed me a grin. "Anna."
Irl, do I love her and does she love me? No. But this is the seed of another romance book I don't have the time to write.

I was miserable. At a parade! All of my friends were drunk and misbehaving and smelled of rancid tequila. I felt alone and about a million years old. The sun was glaring daggers into my eyeballs.
And then! At this parade! A very large beautiful man I didn't know! Saw me squinting! Said, "I'm can block the sun for you" and stepped in front of me. My sun-blindness cleared into a vision of his gentle smile.
He was a mathematics professor! Very sober, soft-spoken, kind. Did not insult my drunk friends but also stood carefully apart from them. The perfect balance.
Do I love him? No. But he's a romantic hero in a book somewhere in the multiverse.

#these are very good example of what just looking and watching can add to your writing#i do this - not always for romance purposes but i just PAY ATTENTION to the people around me#because ordinary people are interesting and everyone has their own story#and they can inspire you in ways you'd never come up with yourself
Yes! This was a post about getting into the writing mindset.
I wasn't trying to share special memories or make a statement about the goodness of humanity (totally fine if that's what you got from this!). But this is a tool any writer could add to their toolbox: finding tidbits from life not merely through neutral observation but by observing the world through the lens of your own writing philosophy.
I write romance books. The romance genre at its best gives every kind of person the opportunity to be the hero of their own story. For me, observing the world through my writing philosophy means acknowledging the heroism intrinsic in us all. Thinking: What if this person were the romantic hero? Why would someone fall in love with them? For folks writing different kinds of stories, the approach may differ, but it'll still be creatively generative.
"do you seriously think you're above the rules" the stupid ones yeah
if you want me to follow the rules you have to make sure they're not stupid. this isn't a difficult concept to grasp.
fanfiction is like. here’s a piece of my soul! here’s the parts of me i didn’t know what else to do with! i wrapped them up in something i love in an attempt to understand my own feelings and morals and maybe the whole world. hope you like it.

"we live in an uncaring universe"
false. i care very deeply. am i not a part of this infinite universe?
do you like men

man is a hopeless creature. i don’t like much of anyone

oh if you meant sexually then yes
the funniest thing about tumblr fandoms for good well-made thought out media is seeing people point shit out while saying "i know its not that deep but-" girl it literally is. sometimes good writers will make the curtains blue on purpose to symbolize something. you are analyzing and interpreting bro
I'm in my "I take care of me" era. I want her to like me. I want to impress her. I want to cook top tier meals for her and lay her down to sleep. I want her to stay excited about me. I want her to feel close to me. I want her to want to spend time with me. I want her to think I'm cool and irreplaceable because I take care of us both no matter the circumstance!!!!

i love it when characters are package deals, i love duos i love trios i love quartets, i love groups and squads, i love it when you can’t find one without the other(s), i love it when they’re glued at the hip, i love it no matter the context of these dynamics, i lov

Getting the creative juices flowing…
I do! I have plenty of pep-talks and resources for this sort of thing, so I’ve organized them here by method (prompts/playlists/advice/inspiration/etc)
Articles
- Coming Up With Scene Ideas
- Coming Up With “Original” Ideas
- How To Turn A Good Idea Into A Good Story
- How To Motivate Yourself To Write
- Reasons To Improve Your Lifestyle
- Tips & Advice for Aspiring Authors, Writers, and Poets
- Healthy Forms of Motivation
- How To Have A Productive Mindset
- How To Fall In Love With Writing
- Writing Through Mental Health Struggles
- Why “Burnout” Is Oay - The Creative Cycle
- How To Actually Get Writing Done
Playlists
- Things To Listen To When You’re Working
- Classical & Instrumental
- Ambient
- Sad Scenes
- Chase Scenes
- Epic Scenes
- Fight Scenes
- Angst Scenes
- Fun Montage Scenes
- Climax Scenes
- Calm Scenes
- Resolution Scenes
- Romantic Scenes
- Action Scenes
- Science Fiction
- Our Day Will Come
- Contemporary Poetry
- MORE
Prompts, Prompt Lists, & Writing Challenges
- Dark Quotes & Prompts
- Challenges For Different Types of Writers | Part II
- Angst Prompts
- 31 Days of Prompts : January 2018 Writing Challenge
- 20 Sentence Story Prompt
- Dramatic Prompts
- Suspenseful Prompts
- Sad Prompts
- Romantic Prompts
- 31 Days of Horror : October 2019 Writing Challenge
- 31 Days of Fantasy - December 2020 Writing Challenge
- Fake Relationship Alternate Universe Prompts
- Assassin Alternate Universe Prompts
- Soulmates Alternate Universe Prompts
Advice & Pep-Talks
- Restarting Your Writing Passion
- On Hating Your Old Stuff
- Depression As An Inhibitor
- Dear Writers Who Are Hesitant To Start Writing
- “All First Drafts Are Crap” – My Thoughts
- Getting Back To Writing After A Long Hiatus
- Wanting To Finish A Story You’ve Fallen Out of Love With
- Getting Motivated To Write
- Getting Burnt Out Near The Finish Line
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nothing sluttier than lighting up a cigarette immediately after an absolutely brutal fight and inhaling deeply before exhaling the smoke with a sigh of relief while still disheveled and covered in blood and coming down from the adrenaline high. you could literally have sex onscreen and it would be less erotic.
and getting someone else to light the cigarette for you because you're too badly injured/exhausted to do it yourself... that's gay sex baby